Every morning Tom puts on aftershave lotion. Currently he's using Afta. The scent of this lotion is particularly noisome. It wafts up into my nostrils and makes me want vomit.
This morning I plucked up the courage to tell him that I hate this aftershave lotion. He informed me in no uncertain terms that he likes it and isn't going to change.
I suggested a compromise that if he is going to continue to use it could he please put it on in the bathroom.
I heard him mumble as he went down the stairs "Oh, it's all about Jen".
My heart rejoiced.
It's taken him almost 15 years of marriage but he finally understands that indeed it IS all about Jen.